What happened to Aurora Leigh

[TheJester]

Hey Dulc! I just thought of this on the way to the lab. Don't worry about work and gossip and stuff. I hadn't heard about this at all, and I won't speak of it. I'm not much of a grape-viner ..... unless it's actually about work stuff.

[gae]

Originally posted by G L:
He doesn't deserve you, IMHO.

<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">YO!! GL!! If you're going to hit on Dulc, at least have the decency to get a room.

Simply trying to lighten up the hell that Dulc is living right now.

I think if Dulc says the word, there are enough folks here on the board who have NEVER met her, but will be willing to support her at the divorce hearing(s). And support hearing(s). I'll be there, if wanted.

I don't know anything about Dulc's and KP's life; I don't know them. But IMO anyone who steps out like that, without first filing for a divorce, is pond scum.

[Cagliostro]

what an asshole KP must be.

Have you considered going to upper management about it? Some companies really frown on such shenanigans and one or both of them could find themselves out of a job. They would have at my last company in Ohio. I know of one instance where a man and woman were openly making out at a convention. The CEO saw it and remarked to someone else "Aren't they married, and not to one another?" when he found out the answer was in the affirmative he fired them both the next day. Just a thought....

<font color="#000002" size="1">[ September 07, 2004 01:41 PM: Message edited by: G L ]</font>

[Cagliostro]

Originally posted by gae:
YO!! GL!! If you're going to hit on Dulc, at least have the decency to get a room.

<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Now why would I go and creep her out by doing something like that...

<font color="#000002" size="1">[ September 07, 2004 01:48 PM: Message edited by: G L ]</font>

[Dulcinea]

LAKE, my sister-in-law's daughter and her husband are both attorneys. She found me a GREAT attorney. Originally I was considering the guy that KP ended up going with, but it is a good thing I did not. Yes, my shark is definitely way bigger than his shark.

And yes, KP's income is definitely an attractor for TOW. I know this is true from those who *used* to be her friends. Of course, she would never let on about that, no, it is his SOUL she loves, his artistic nature, the way he brings out the best in her (we need a puking emoticon). She is playing him for sure.

Yes, one advantage she will have over me in her relationship with KP is that she KNOWS he is capable of betraying the one he said he would love forever. I was so trusting, never thought he would do this, it went way further before I found out than it would have if I had been suspicious.

Gae, I will send you email. I would love to talk with you in person, someone who has, as you say, BTDT.

[Cagliostro]

Originally posted by LAKE:


Please stay in touch. If for nothing else, there's probably at least 2 men on this board who could whack 'im for you!

<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Don't forget reason. He could slap him pretty hard I bet.

[TheJester]

The J.C. that works with K.M.?

Honey, don't even say that! I'll gag on my computer. That one's too moody.

I just figured out who P.K. is. Don't really know her, but was surprised. Not sure why.

[jumper69]

Here ya go Dulc...

[gae]

Dulc, if your shark doesn't work out, let me know. The <s>shark</s> attorney that handled Trav's divorce and mine (separate years) is good.

[Dulcinea]

GL, unfortunately this sort of thing is ALL TOO common at this corporation. My attorney has represented several people from here, and she agrees with me that the atmosphere is quite accepting of this type of liason, no repercussions. When we had someone who had an affair with a subordinate and they both left their S.O.'s (one of whom was in this Division also), there were no visible sanctions.